Wed, 13 July 2016
In 2005 I created a news and information podcast. Since then I have been the show’s producer and host. The truth of the matter is that it was talk radio that truly owned my heart. But I always felt that mainstream media, which I worked in for most of my career, was failing minorities and especially women. So down the podcasting rabbit hole I went to express my need to do something about the ridiculous state of news and information served up to the minority community. One such commentary is titled “What is that Smell? Radio & TV Programming for Black Audiences.” http://bit.ly/29OOyEg. The first year of podcast episodes actually came with an explanation of what it was that people were listening to. Times have changed.
As I contemplate officially closing down my podcast site and archives, I consider how much the world, the internet and I have changed in eleven years. I’m sorry for all the lost early voices of podcasting that populated the iTunes store. Those regular folks who had something to say, took their shot and faithfully posted episodes. They created content as a labor of love, but they were always trying to find a way to monetize their shows. I wish that I had the strength to continue being “The Small Voice in the Nation’s Capital.”
My podcast was also a marker of my personal life and times--as a mother of two children who were coming of age, my ugly and protracted divorce, friendships lost and found, and my love for my grandmother, Adele. I put it all out there for anyone who cared to give a listen.
Well, my son has just turned twenty-one, and my grandmother died last year at ninety-eight years old. After my divorce, I moved in with my beloved Adele when she was ninety-four to help see her through to the end. There are several stories on my website that I wrote about the woman I called, “the original badass.” I even fulfilled a dream to write a fictionalize novel about her life and times and the community she lived in (www.seatonplace.net). She died a week before I wrote the last few pages. It’s no wonder then that as my writing and care-giving for my grandmother increased, my internal calling to continue producing, recording, editing and posting new hour-long podcast episodes faded. (Hard to believe, I know, but I’m not sure if there’s that much #BlackGirlMagic in the world. I damn sure tried.)
Almost simultaneously, as I was mastering the care and feeding of Adele, in 2012, Trayvon Martin was murdered. My son, too, was 17-years old at the time and at all times I was knots-in-my-stomach-frightened for him and for all Black boys. You see, in the winter of 1995, my ob/gyn told me I was having a boy. I was home alone when I got the news. I crumpled to the floor in tears that day with prescient accuracy, repeating to just me and my invisible bundle of joy, “How am I going to raise this boy.” Needless to say, most recently, he and his dreadlocks have been pulled over for driving while Black or dreadlocked, I'm not sure which. Let's just say both. And his very first day at the University of Maryland he was stopped and frisked by campus police for carrying a backpack on a college campus. WTF?
The increasingly blatant and hatefully specific misanthropic assault on Black folks over the last several years makes me wanna holler—sing Marvin. I have kept my tears and words in strict lockdown—fearing the flood and anger that I am absolutely sure will follow. But I have cried as I have read spectacular and eloquent writing by people profoundly affected by Black lives bullied, harassed, degraded and lessened in jobs, schools—the elementary through the university variety, on any street and at the always troublesome pool parties. And, of course, there are the Black Lives that have been just haphazardly murdered in whooptys, idyllic parks, by the side of dusty country roads, in the crowded hood, up against super highways, in front of convenience stores, in the middle of quiet neighborhood streets—in broad daylight and under assumed cover of darkness. For the first time just last spring, while I was running on my regular route along the National Mall, right here in the Nation’s Capital, steps from the Obama White House, surrounded by cherry blossom-seeking white tourists, I actually felt like there was a target on my back. For the first time since I left South Boston as a little girl, I felt like a nigger again--like strange fruit. I still wasn’t free. As Jesse Williams said, “Freedom is somehow always conditional here. . . Freedom is always coming in the hereafter . . . We want it now.”
So, I am at a point where most of life’s tethers are worn or have fallen away. My grandmother’s home has been sold and in a few weeks I’ll be homeless. After almost 70 years, what my grandmother worked like a dog to have and to provide shelter for others has fallen to the gentrifiers.
It’s a challenging time to want to be a free, Black woman in America. There so much more for me to do and see. I’d love to take a cross country trip—how safe would that be? I still have my dreams of talk radio. Yes, my voice and my heart still ache to be heard. I’ve never been to New Orleans—I’d like to get into formation with the #BlackLivesMatter protesters wherever they’re protesting. I so want to experience New Orleans, the Grand Canyon and the Pacific Ocean. There’s never been a better time in my life to check some things off of my bucket list. But really, how safe is it out there to be so frivolous and to be thinking I’m a free Black woman in America?
Category:general -- posted at: 8:49pm EDT
Fri, 2 October 2015
Finally, today after over twenty passionate, frustrating and wonderfully engrossing years of genealogy research and two years of using some of that research to write the great American novel--Seaton Place, I'm asking for your help to get Seaton Place published. Here's the Seaton Place website: www.seatonplace.net and here's the link to my kickstarter campaign. Your help is needed and greatly appreciated.
Please visit either site and learn more about me, Seaton Place the Novel and my small but very important part of the Nation's Capital.
Category:general -- posted at: 9:29pm EDT
Fri, 6 March 2015
Another excerpt from Seaton Place on tumblr.
Category:general -- posted at: 10:09pm EDT
Wed, 18 February 2015
Well! Hello again, to you the supporters of the Sunny James Show. Some time ago I wrote about the reason for my radio . . . er sorry (hope springs eternal), podcast silence. I know it’s been a while so here’s an update. My last podcast was in November of 2012, just before President Obama was elected to his second term. I was certain that the next show was percolating and I even did a quick video clip saying as much. But it just didn’t happen. I’ve missed doing my podcast, but between elder care and getting my son through his last year of high school, I was stretched thin. As some of you may know, my son is now a sophomore at the University of Maryland and my grandmother is still going strong at 98-years old.
While on hiatus from The Sunny James Show, I decided that it was a good time to start the novel, the idea and research, which had been on my life’s back burner for over twenty years from the time when my now-deceased aunt told me a bit of North Carolina family history that lit in me an inextinguishable flame.
Whew! 115,000 words and twenty chapters later, Seaton Place, a complex African-American family saga and neo-slave narrative, has found its way onto the page. . .
In 1948, Seaton Place is a street in the Eckington neighborhood of the Nation’s Capital where Black families, sometimes one generation removed from slavery, have staked their claims on fresh starts in homes that frightened Whites no longer want. The new Black homeowners live their lives boldly and publicly. They revel in their freedom and participation in the American dream by whatever, legal or illegal, means that may take. Leading the charge and living an out-sized life on Seaton Place is Adele James, runaway wife, mother and, ultimately, matriarch.
In 1941, Adele, a pretty high yella woman with long black hair, big breast, long shapely legs and from the wrong side of the tracks in Fountain, North Carolina, fled her husband who had hit her for the first and last time. Seven years earlier Adele had hurriedly married into a family of prosperous farmers and former slaves. And on the same night that Roosevelt told Americans about “a date which will live in infamy”, Adele left the South behind including her husband and their four children, all under eight-years old. The Trailways bus deposited her in the Nation’s Capital where in 1948 she bought her home in Eckington on Seaton Place.
Seaton Place is my, now-98-year old, grandmother’s story of dysfunction, abandonment and survival. It’s an account of a woman that wanted to be free of what was expected of her as a Black southern woman, wife and mother. The story reaches back through time to tell of a woman, who escaped the “crazy” DNA from her mother and grandmother but who couldn’t save her progeny. The frayed and unspoken threads of mental illness are woven through Adele’s life and history from slavery, through Reconstruction through to today. To this day mental illness is a conversation that Black families still don’t know how to have. Seaton Place is about the ripples that were created not just by Adele’s genealogy but also by her leaving, the many men in her life, the raucous and open way she lived, how her children tragically dealt with being left behind, her willful lack of accountability, and how my own beginnings with my mother, who at seventeen-years old fled Seaton Place for Boston’s Back Bay, and are tied up with Malcolm X, Ella Collins and an abusive ex-con.
Like I said, "Whew." What better time than Black History Month to share that? I guess I could say that I’ve been researching for over twenty years and writing for two.
I am moving forward with the process of editing and self-publishing as the publishing industry isn’t welcoming to a who-the-hell-is-she, first-time novelist. I suspect a kickstarter campaign is in my future and I’m looking for a few beta readers. Also, I’ll be posting small excerpts from Seaton Place to tumblr at sunnyjames.tumblr.
Some of you have reached out wanting to know where I’ve been and what I’ve been doing. I’ve tried to keep my social media presence active. Most of the time, I know it was lacking and ultimately devolving into just reading your updates. I appreciate all of you who checked in on me occasionally.
Thanks again for your support.
Category:general -- posted at: 4:56pm EDT
Wed, 10 September 2014
Since last winter I have been writing the GAN. Come on, you know what that is--the great american novel. After year's of listening to every Tom, Dick and Harry, recite these words--"you should write a book."
As Edgar Albert Guest wrote in his poem "It Couldn't Be Done," I finally "tackled the thing." Until last week, that is, when the words became belligerent and unwieldy. Then it was time for tumblr, my writing in very short-form.
I have spent a great deal of time podcasting, hoping that all roads lead to terresterial radio. But, alas, it just hasn't happened yet. So I write. I love writing almost as much as I love questioning and talking about the issue of the day.
So, here's to the end of the most insidious evil--Writer's Block and a Shiksa's Mikvah
Category:Bits and Pieces -- posted at: 6:29pm EDT
Wed, 21 May 2014
If you’re a long-time listener, you know that from the very beginning it’s always been my dream to work in terrestrial radio but in the last 24-hours even proven radio talent are being axed from great shows. I'm still pissed that NPR ended Michelle Martin's "Tell Me More."
I do wish that I had the financial resources to continue to do my podcast a different way. While I sort out the show’s future, I’ve decided to turn my attention to writing, creating beautiful hand-crafted things and photography. What you may not have known is that during my divorce, my ex took off with my medium format camera equipment (and my home, but that's another story); I was a really good and very passionate photographer. I'd love to work that muscle again. And, yes, I'm still running, swimming and biking (keep reading for my most recent rumination on biking)
Who knew that at this point in my life an artist would emerge and demand to be nurtured? Social media has always provided an outlet for my pent up creativity. (the early adopter that I am, my first years of podcasts always came with a definition for 'podcast') For me creativity comes many ways, the spoken and written word and photography. In addition, I love to merge my love of jewelry, especially beads with paper to create wearable art that doesn’t leave a big footprint on the planet.
So, until I strike it rich and/or I decide what will become of “The Sunny James Show” I hope you’ll take a look at some of the things that I’ll be posting on tumblr.
If you’ve just recently found my show, please do explore the archives. There’s some great work there that I’m proud of.
That being said, here’s my most recent musing on tumblr. "Whatcha Lookin At?" I am a WWWSB—a Woman Who Wears Skirts on a Bike. What is it about a woman on a bike … http://t.co/BC353WIyWN
Category:Show Notes (what the hell am I doing) -- posted at: 5:00pm EDT
Mon, 22 July 2013
I have spoken many times of Miss Adele, my gramma. I have spoken of her as "The Original Bad Ass." She will always be that for me--a girl that didn't have any clue that women had such power until I met her. She is still unbelievably sharp and still has so much attitude--come correct or she'll tell you "you're full of shit." She is just home from being in the hospital. Her cancer has returned and she does not want the doctors "pokin and feelin all over" her. Miss Adele bought the house we're living in 1948. It was a battle. She had to fight redlining, unwelcoming and sometimes violent white neighbors and, of course, the law that said she had to have her husband's signature on the mortgage documents. By that time, Adele and Charlie were still married in name only. Grandad was living in Fountain, North Carolina and she'd be damned if his "bootleggin' and chain gang workin' ass" name was going on the house that she had toiled to have by working in the kitchen of the Mayflower Hotel. The dust and country farming life were not meant for Miss Adele. But she NEVER ever forgot her roots and what it meant to be in need in a new place. Over the years she has sheltered 97 people under her roof. Most from North Carolina sprinkled with a few hard luck stories from right here in DC, including yours truly for a second go'round after a divorce. I will always be thankful that my kids have had the "Miss Adele Experience." She is a history lesson everyday. I listen and take notes--ever the genealogist. But nothing beats watching her eyes as she tells her stories. Of not being able to shop in long-gone department stores--right here in the Nation's Capital (she outlasted them all, take that Garfinkels). Of being stopped and felt up by racist cops in the south and in DC for doing nothing more than walking along the street (although her breast would cause any man pause). And the how and whys of her many many lovers--it would curl your hair! I have bathed and shampooed every inch of her. I have clipped her hair (yes, even there) and toenails. There is sagging skin in every nook and cranny and I have massaged and lotioned the place where there used to be a wonderfully full round breast. This slow and steady march toward death is not what I was prepared for, not what I wanted. But I think I am what she AND I needed. Death has its own grace and power if you lean into it, watch it and accept it. I am thankful for being apart of Adele's life here at the end. She has shown me how to live out loud. She admits her long-ago mistakes but rather matter-of-factly, not with regret--"that's just how it was in those days" she says.
Category:Sunny's Almost Daily Commentary -- posted at: 4:50pm EDT
Thu, 25 October 2012
Welcome to the Sunny James Show!
One badass lady--Annie Edson Taylor goes over Niagrara Falls in a barrel in 1901. She was 63 years old at the time.
Don't you dare tell me how much something cost if I haven't asked.
League of Women Voters needs to stop frontin' and just say all the stuff about being "a non-partisian, political organization that encourages informed and active participation of citzens" is bullshit
-- Mourdocks, Akins and Lies, oh my!
-- Obama drives back into the White House?
-- Will the Electoral College screw us again? Even Mo Roca's 3rd graders know what's fair
-- Reverse migration
-- Elyria, Ohio on race: Enough already of the neverending conversation?
-- Wonder Woman--of course, she's on the radio
-- Nerdland: a nice place for Black folks
For the Musically Stuck in Rut . . . BeauSoleil
Where in the World Is . . . Prague
Sunny's Good Word . . . Excoriate
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Til Next Time
Thu, 18 October 2012
Welcome to the Sunny James Show!
I always knew that people in the UK, Germany, Philippines and Australia just loved me. Thanks for the support.
A week off to celebrate and reflect. The Radio Goddess did indeed have another birthday.
The permanent yellow card for my son's soccer career.
-- Def not a woman in a binder, Bernette Johnson NOLA's 1st Black chief justice
-- Lay no more, the Catholic Church & their female priest. Well just until they're excommunicated
-- Where are you on the line: Poverty in America
-- DC public schools say: "Sure, we'll try that"
-- Glossy, flashy, trashy fashion rags still serving up bullshit to women
-- BOLO for Sweet taste of honey and no sting
-- Multi-generational living REDUX
-- Eric Deggans' new book Race-Baiter: How the media wields dangerous words to divide a nation. You had me at 'race'
For the Musically Stuck in a Rut . . . 'Hold On' by Alabama Shakes. After 3 hours of leap frogging through iTunes recently, I discovered Alabama Shakes. Oh my, the voice on lead singer Brittany Howard. So real and deep.
Where in the World Is . . . the Gulf of Aden
Sunny's Good Word . . . Nuncupative
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Wed, 3 October 2012
Welcome to the Sunny James Show
Ode to October. Forget the Oktoberfest. Time for pumpkins, ghouls and presidential debates
Love your breast--fondle, mash, repeat
DC's own Geniuses
It's time to Slut Walk
Friendships and weird neighbors
-- PA voters win
-- Desperation makes you do weird shit--Romney steals Obama's plan
-- Sin and a shame--unemployment benefits for 2,400 millionaires
-- I don't get Saudi Islamic women?
-- American women wrong? Not so much
-- AP classes--a good thing
-- Haiti fighting elephantiasis
-- The curtain falls on Voice of America's African music guy
-- Ford's new police Interceptor makes me want to get my hands dirty
For the Musically Stuck in a Rut . . . Think Pink's Truth About Love. Whatever color, Pink's my kinda girl
Where in the World is . . . Saintes-Maries-de-la-Mer, parlez vous francaise?
Sunny's Good Word . . . Fugacious--catch it quick
Til Next Time,
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